Most people want to live to a hundred and beyond (with the proviso that they maintain good health). This is understandable as they would not want to be a burden to others. Below are 10 individuals who met the two criteria and thus are qualified to be placed in this enviable category. Each of them is asked to …….. more Read the rest of this entry »
Archive for March 2009
Want to live to a hundred and more???
In Experience, Health, Senior citizens, care, choices, heart disease, vitamins on March 31, 2009 at 4:49 pmLittle Things Do Mean A Lot
In Behavior, choices, inspiring, wisdom, words on March 29, 2009 at 9:33 amIn this age of instant gratification, this attitude permeates into everything we want to do. If there is anything we choose to do we want to see the end result immediately. In this unreasonable haste to want to have the thing the very next minute we have thought of owning it have caused us to look down on the many small steps we have to take to get the big reward.
Instead we now focus all our attention, energy and time on the big things. We concentrate our attention on events and personalities that ……..more Read the rest of this entry »
How do you fathom life?
In Abuses, Behavior, Chinese, family, parents on March 27, 2009 at 10:04 amPlease read the article taken from ‘thestar online’ and see if you can fathom how, though we each has a life, it always turns out to be different for each of us.
Friday March 27, 2009
Baby dies, drunk parents forgot to feed him
By Stephen Then - ‘thestar online’
MIRI: A baby boy, less than a month old, starved to death after his parents allegedly forgot to feed him because they were too drunk.The baby died in the intensive-care unit of Miri Hospital yesterday morning and a police report has been lodged.
Police now want to question……..more Read the rest of this entry »
Man of the House an Umbrella???
In Children, Father, Relationship, care, choices, family, gratefulness, parents on March 26, 2009 at 4:16 amOur Umbrella
March 26, 2009 by littlerhody
It shields us from anything foul heading our way. It takes the constant pelting so we never have to feel the sting. It blocks the harmful rays from us. It makes sure we are properly sheltered. It keeps us protected in our current climate.
It will take a beating from the damaging elements each day. Sometimes an unexpected surge will come along and even turn it inside out and maybe even bend the frame a bit but the central rod will not bend. It will get tattered. It will be worn in spots and it will gray. It will age.
But we will never toss……..more Read the rest of this entry »
AIG Bonuses – Is it greed, righteous claim or would compassion counts?
In Abuses, Behavior, Sacrifice, USA, anger, choices, employment, president, recession, recovery, sharing on March 25, 2009 at 7:12 amThe AIG colossal payouts as bonuses to some of their top executives has stirred up the wrath of the majority of the American public. The US Government is angry, its president is angry, the lawmakers are furious and some Americans even demonstrated in front of the homes of some of the executives.
This whole episode, is it pure greed on the part of the AIG executives? Or is it total stupidity on the part of the top, top executives in AIG? Or is it the righteous claims……..more Read the rest of this entry »
Little Things mean a Lot
In Behavior, choices, words on March 24, 2009 at 10:19 amThe little things that we can do and say tend to get lost in the course of our daily activities. These little things can uplift the spirits, bring a smile to others’ faces, bring a ray of sunlight into the lives of others, they can even unintentionally save a person’s life. Yet in the hustle and bustle of modern living, we start to treat these as unimportant and we neglect to participate in them.
Reflecting on them, I find the small things are really the big things. How many times can we really always do big things for our loved ones in our daily lives? How many occasions are there in lives for us that offer us opportunities to do the big things? How many of us have the money to always do……..more Read the rest of this entry »
Short, short memory.
In Behavior, Mindfulness, Pleasure, affluence, awareness, care, choices on March 14, 2009 at 7:52 amWhen we are lacking, when we have to count our dollars and cents when we wish to spend and when we watch others spending seemingly without having have to have second thoughts, we wish the days will come when are in abundance, when we can spend without having to count every cent and having to think of how the money can be put for a better use.
But when the day of abundance does finally appear, we end up conveniently and totally……. Read the rest of this entry »
Adapt them to the local conditions and Save Big Money
In Behavior, Experience, Mindfulness, awareness, care, choices, family, medication, recession on March 11, 2009 at 4:23 pmAll of us are well aware the Nasty and Ugly Recession is upon us. No one can ignore the ravaging ruins it has inflicted on many families and will continue to inflict on many more. Thus, it is a good measure for us to be careful with the use of our money,
The article posted below is taken from ‘Shine’(Yahoo). The tips are plain but are totally applicable in everyone’s life. We can adapt them…….. Read the rest of this entry »
Way to Happiness and Peace but you have to work for it.
In Behavior, Buddhism, Experience, Health, anger, choices, meditation, wisdom on March 10, 2009 at 4:49 pmMost of us look normal to others but each of us know this is not the case. Deep inside, each of us is a bundle of nerves. Our happiness is only skin-deep, it is here this moment and gone the next.
Happiness makes its appearance and it is quickly replaced by confusion, which is in turn replaced by perplexity. This emotion vanishes and agitation takes its place. Disturbance, anger, chaos, uncertainty, distraction or…….. Read the rest of this entry »
10 tips for better sleep
In Abuses, Depression, Sleep, care, choices, environment, feelings, insomnia, medication, smoking on March 7, 2009 at 4:43 amIt is hope this article on insomnia will help those who find it difficult to fall alseep at night. And there are many people who are having such problem around us. For those of us who don’t face such a problem, we could not truly understand what agony these people go through daily. Sincerely……. Read the rest of this entry »
Love, toddlers, their IQ, educational videos and DVDs, pros and cons.
In Abuses, Books, CNN, Children, Education, Experience, Sleep, awareness, consideration, parents, wisdom, words on March 5, 2009 at 4:19 amStudy: Want a smart baby? TV’s not going to help
An article by Madison Park
CNN
(CNN) — Watching television does not make babies smarter, according to a study released this week……. Read the rest of this entry »
This is how bad things are.
In Behavior, economics, employment, humiliation, jobless, recession, recovery on March 3, 2009 at 9:30 amCNN
SAN FRANCISCO, California (CNN) — Every Thursday afternoon, the San Geronimo Valley Community Center opens its doors to the needy. It becomes a food bank to serve the most vulnerable citizens of Marin County, California.
A California community center says it’s seeing more working professionals visit its food bank.
Here in the San Francisco Bay Area, as well as nationwide, more people are coming to food banks. In 2008, demand for emergency food assistance went up by 30 percent compared with the previous year, according to Feeding America, a national hunger relief charity.
Given the economic downturn, it is not surprising that food banks are seeing more traffic. But workers at the San Geronimo center are surprised by some of the new faces.
“We have people in marketing and software. We have a lot of Realtors that live out here. So those are the people we’re seeing for the first time,” said Dave Cort, the center’s executive director.
Claudia Bartram, 59, was terrified to walk in the door and nearly broke out in tears when she asked a worker how she could get food. “It’s humiliating to find yourself in this situation. I grew up in a privileged lifestyle,” she said.
Bartram, who is divorced and without children, said she made a comfortable living as a sales representative in a variety of industries. She said the stock market wiped out a large portion of her nest egg. And things got worse a few weeks ago when she lost her job as a representative for an in-home care provider for senior citizens.
She said she’s using what’s left of her savings to pay the mortgage on her $350,000 condominium.
“You keep thinking you’re an intelligent person. I had so much. How did I lose it?”
Food bank workers say it’s common for people to be apologetic, especially those who were making six-figure incomes. “Now, all of a sudden, they’re coming to us,” said Larry Sly, the director of the Food Bank for Contra Costa and Solano counties.
Sly estimates that 10 percent of those coming to food banks in his area are new people. So far, he says, his food bank has been able to keep up with the demand.
The food there is mostly donated from local grocery stores and the United States Department of Agriculture. A typical visit will provide about $50 worth of groceries.
“You know at least you’re offering folks help. It’s not the answer to their problem. They need a job. To the extent we give them food, it makes a difference, ” Sly said.
Bartram hasn’t decided if she’ll go back for more assistance. She says she finds the whole thing sad and ironic because she used to donate to food banks. “I have much more empathy for people who can find themselves in this kind of situation because I see how easily it happened to me. I can certainly understand how it happened to other people, ” she said.
One food bank volunteer said that these days, the lines for food will tell you everything you need to know about the economy.
“This is kind of the bottom of the barrel. The more people that hit the bottom of the barrel — that’s the real indicator of where the economy is at, not what the Dow industrial average is sitting at,” the volunteer said.
It is really sad how bad things have turned out for many people in the world. How her money diminished in front her very eyes of the lady is not privy to her alone. Many do not have her courage to admit the same fate have fallen upon them. I am sure it has happened to thousand, if not million, of people around the world. Hope those affected have the dexterity and perseverance to weather this devastating economic crisis.
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Where is mankind’s hope?
In Abuses, Behavior, Human nature, Mindfulness, Relationship, anger, economics, feelings, recession, recovery on March 3, 2009 at 7:44 amLet us take a tour around the world. In Australia, there are fires and strong winds ravaging the forests. In Thailand, the people is demonstrating against the government. In Sudan, the militia is battling the local troops, piracy is rampant in Somalia. In Guatemala, the drug war is raging on, in Mexico, armed robberies are committed against the travellers.
In the Gaza, the Arab and the Israelis are waging war against each other. The war in Iraq continues unabated. The Sri Lankan cricket team was shot at by Pakistani armed men. In Bangladesh, India, Sri Lanka, Afghanistan there are civil wars, strife, unrest and conflicts. In the Koreas, the relationship between the North and the South is at the breaking point.
In every country around the world, recession is ravaging into the economies, creating havoc to lives of millions of people, sparing no one. The situation really look bleak, depressing and hopeless.
Let us ponder what have brought about such calamities and catastrophes upon us. Or should we ponder who have brought about these upon us? The wars, the strife, the suffering, the conflicts, the pain and the animosity are all our own creations. Because of our faulty thinking we think by indulging in them we can be famous, great, popular, we can gain and have more than what we now possess. Because we seek these false values we misuse our energies, time and resources.We have abuse our true talents and potentials through allowing our thought process to go haywire. Through the unmindful way of our own thinking, we have fallen into a very deep pit which we seem not to have a solution.
We have inflicted the wounds upon ourselves. So, we ourselves must find a way out of this deep pit (not a bottomless pit but a deep pit). We still have hope if we would only reverse our thinking. What we have been doing all the past years that have brought us to this near disaster, we have to reverse it. We have to start walking towards the opposite pole, that is our only hope!
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